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香港性教育、研究及治療專業協會註冊性治療師,愛跟人及貓交朋友,在傳統學校長大,接受性與愛教育不多,10+年前做輔導工作時才發覺弊傢伙,因性與愛是不少問題的根源。接受訓練後自覺開竅,致力幫人處理性與愛的知識、技巧及態度問題。未來希望透過不同手法與平台談情說性,令更多人受惠。


有沒攪錯3~神秘小三角

標籤性教育  2011-04-06 01:30


穿著內褲洗澡?

聽到這樣,你也許會說句:不是吧!! 有沒攪錯?!


但這樣的事例的確發生過,有女生從小開始,洗澡時便穿著內褲,為的不是順道清洗衣服,而是怕觸摸性器官.


查明原因,跟家庭性教育有關.母親在她小時候用一種很負面的方法談及性,多次提及觸摸性器官是淫蕩污穢的事情.


久而久之,女生接收的訊息,是那兒是個’禁地’,神秘,不潔,淫蕩,令人丟臉和羞恥等感覺,彷彿跟這神秘’三角地帶’扯上關係.

進入青春期時,女生以上的感覺更根深蒂固,因為,小三角大便小便經血都有密切的關係.

親愛的家長:


莫輕視你說過的每一句,家庭永遠是孩子出生以來,最熟悉最信任的圈子;家庭性教育,也對孩子日後的性價值觀,有著最深遠的影晌!



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  • 性治療師陶芍伶
    性治療師陶芍伶 2011-04-07 19:54
    肥肥人: 我想起了京華春夢裡面 松哥同Orange 錫錫之後, 真係影住盆花wor
    我唔係想回應你講ge嘢, 係想講你隻貓好靚...呵呵!! 愛貓人對人家的貓都是較sensitive d!!!
  • 肥肥人
    肥肥人 2011-04-07 15:06
    May: hehe.... 我諗起我細個果時真係好低能.... 電視劇成日都係一男一女瞓落床,跟住影住支玫瑰花.... 慢慢天開始光,男主角咬住口煙,然後.... 隔幾日.... 女主角就哭訴自
    我想起了京華春夢裡面 松哥同Orange 錫錫之後, 真係影住盆花wor
  • 性治療師陶芍伶
    性治療師陶芍伶 2011-04-07 10:45
    May: MUSHROOM!!!
    or POTATO, if you like!!  
  • 性治療師陶芍伶
    性治療師陶芍伶 2011-04-07 10:43
    WG: Haha! Wah wah wah, that's our grandma's era storyline!
    exactly! but everyone remembers!!!
  • May
    May 2011-04-07 10:31
    性治療師陶芍伶: 唔係喎! 我通常睇d情節, 第二日個女仔會喊(但冇眼淚)住同個男仔講: 你.... 蝦我..我都唔知點見人....咁我諗來諗去, 都唔知個男仔點蝦個女仔, 又更加唔知
    有呀有呀!! 都有D咁o既情節o架!!
  • May
    May 2011-04-07 10:28
    WG: I had the similar experience with what you described in your article. I think we have obligations to educate our next generations with positive messag
    MUSHROOM!!!
  • WG
    WG 2011-04-07 09:42
    Haha! Wah wah wah, that's our grandma's era storyline!
  • WG
    WG 2011-04-07 09:40
    Haha! Well said, May! In reality, one of my friends (about 15 years old then) told me that she was so worried about getting pregnant after her puppy love boyfriend gave her a kiss on the cheek! It says it all isn't it about how well informed we were in those days!
  • WG
    WG 2011-04-07 09:36
    I had the similar experience with what you described in your article. I think we have obligations to educate our next generations with positive messages, not treating them like 'mushrooms' (keep them in the dark and feed them shit).
  • 性治療師陶芍伶
    性治療師陶芍伶 2011-04-07 01:59
    WG: I agree with my leg up! Your children's physical and mental health should be the priority. Overcome your embarassment and talk freely about sex as par
    I wish every parent will have a liberal and reasonable mind like you.  Parents' role in sex education is irreplaceable by any counterpart!
  • 性治療師陶芍伶
    性治療師陶芍伶 2011-04-07 01:55
    May: hehe.... 我諗起我細個果時真係好低能.... 電視劇成日都係一男一女瞓落床,跟住影住支玫瑰花.... 慢慢天開始光,男主角咬住口煙,然後.... 隔幾日.... 女主角就哭訴自
    唔係喎! 我通常睇d情節, 第二日個女仔會喊(但冇眼淚)住同個男仔講: 你.... 蝦我..我都唔知點見人....
    咁我諗來諗去, 都唔知個男仔點蝦個女仔, 又更加唔知點解個女仔見唔得人!! 
  • May
    May 2011-04-07 00:55
    hehe.... 我諗起我細個果時真係好低能.... 電視劇成日都係一男一女瞓落床,跟住影住支玫瑰花.... 慢慢天開始光,男主角咬住口煙,然後.... 隔幾日.... 女主角就哭訴自己有咗BB啦!!! 成件事係咪錯晒呢~~~
  • WG
    WG 2011-04-06 13:07
    I agree with my leg up! Your children's physical and mental health should be the priority. Overcome your embarassment and talk freely about sex as part of your life experince. You don't need to tell them every single detail but the essentials will do. If you can't do it, suggest the children to read some books about sex health or send them to talk to someone who's able to help. Seriously, do not ignore this subject!

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